i think i'm getting addicted....to writing blogs!......i'm at my office right now (i'm interning with a newspaper) and i just had this extremely strong urge to write.....dunno whatt i'm going to write about....but i'll figure something out...i always do!.... :-P
i think one of my best qualities is being able to talk my way into or outta any situation(dependin on my benefit.... :-P)....so far ive been lucky to have come outta many uncomfy and/or difficult situations unscathed....i jus hope my luck lasts......fer a very very long time....n wen i say i talk my way outta a situation.....i don mean i put the blame on sum1 else....i jus manage to sidestep the situation and make the problem seem inconsequential.....no harm done.....n i get away....scot free.....well almost....there's always the guilt u no.....but over time.....even that fades.....but having said that....i'd also like to add that im not, by nature, sum1 who takes pride in wriggling my way outta things.....i jus think that sumtimes...its easier to make things go away rather than face up2 them....especially when its minor things like curfew, or not having eaten on time, or wanting to bunk class.....i only use my 'diplomatic' skills to keep my parents pacified n happy...cause sumtimes its better to use a lil' bit of disillusion than to shatter their impressions.....but i'll make it clear once again.....i do not lie or cheat anyone....jus twist the truth....a teensy weensy bit.... :-P
my parents n nik r the most imp people in my life rite now.....and my maternal granparents and aunt and cousins come in a close second......woteva i do.....i do it to make them proud of me.....i'd hate t0 disappoint them in anyway....although i think i have done that plenty of times......i wish i cud take it all back and do better.....fer their sakes.....i'm sayin all this....cause i know of SO many young people out there who believe that their world revolves around them and their friends....n they tend to ignore their homefront.....and sumtimes end up hurtin or distressin their parents irrevocably......its really sad when kids think that they owe nothin to their folks.....n they dont realise till much much later....that family is jus as (if not more) important than friends.....i mean think bout it....ure parents put up wit all ure bullshit n still love u.....how many of ure friends will do that?.....if u have friends who will...lucky u......but trust me....most friends wont......
but that doesnt mean that all parents r loving and caring.....and that u have to sacrifice ure ambitions n hopes n dreams to keep ure folks happy.......it jus means that u need to try harder to understand y u cant along wit ure folks.....n try to make them understand where u come from.....so that they can adjust themselves n accept u fer who u r n wot u wanna b(trust me....it happens).....n even if after uve tried....tried really hard.....n they still don get u.....then go ahead n do wot u want....at sumpoint of time(most)parents will realise their folly......and u will have the satisfaction of havin atleast tried to please and understand them.....
i think one of my best qualities is being able to talk my way into or outta any situation(dependin on my benefit.... :-P)....so far ive been lucky to have come outta many uncomfy and/or difficult situations unscathed....i jus hope my luck lasts......fer a very very long time....n wen i say i talk my way outta a situation.....i don mean i put the blame on sum1 else....i jus manage to sidestep the situation and make the problem seem inconsequential.....no harm done.....n i get away....scot free.....well almost....there's always the guilt u no.....but over time.....even that fades.....but having said that....i'd also like to add that im not, by nature, sum1 who takes pride in wriggling my way outta things.....i jus think that sumtimes...its easier to make things go away rather than face up2 them....especially when its minor things like curfew, or not having eaten on time, or wanting to bunk class.....i only use my 'diplomatic' skills to keep my parents pacified n happy...cause sumtimes its better to use a lil' bit of disillusion than to shatter their impressions.....but i'll make it clear once again.....i do not lie or cheat anyone....jus twist the truth....a teensy weensy bit.... :-P
my parents n nik r the most imp people in my life rite now.....and my maternal granparents and aunt and cousins come in a close second......woteva i do.....i do it to make them proud of me.....i'd hate t0 disappoint them in anyway....although i think i have done that plenty of times......i wish i cud take it all back and do better.....fer their sakes.....i'm sayin all this....cause i know of SO many young people out there who believe that their world revolves around them and their friends....n they tend to ignore their homefront.....and sumtimes end up hurtin or distressin their parents irrevocably......its really sad when kids think that they owe nothin to their folks.....n they dont realise till much much later....that family is jus as (if not more) important than friends.....i mean think bout it....ure parents put up wit all ure bullshit n still love u.....how many of ure friends will do that?.....if u have friends who will...lucky u......but trust me....most friends wont......
but that doesnt mean that all parents r loving and caring.....and that u have to sacrifice ure ambitions n hopes n dreams to keep ure folks happy.......it jus means that u need to try harder to understand y u cant along wit ure folks.....n try to make them understand where u come from.....so that they can adjust themselves n accept u fer who u r n wot u wanna b(trust me....it happens).....n even if after uve tried....tried really hard.....n they still don get u.....then go ahead n do wot u want....at sumpoint of time(most)parents will realise their folly......and u will have the satisfaction of havin atleast tried to please and understand them.....
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